The essay addresses two multiple caregiving adults in my life, specifically my father and mother. The paper includes the demandingness and responsiveness in the methods and techniques they used, the process of influencing children they used, results of using those approaches, my short and long term behavioral and emotional responses to those methods, how the methods used contributed or hindered the development of the personal discipline skills I have today, and lastly the methods I used, use, and will use with children for whom I am responsible and my reasons for making these choices.
My father practiced authoritative parenting as he was always responsive to my emotional needs whereas having high standards. He used to set limits and was very consistent in enforcing boundaries, he was attuned, warm, and nurturing. My mother, on the other hand, practiced permissive by default parenting. Like my father, she was nurturing and warm, however, she would never allow me to get away with undesirable behavior. They both were models of the behavior they expected of me.
From my father’s parenting technique, I am always content and happy, it also enabled me to be self-reliant and independent, I am more assertive and competent, I have good social skills, and self-control and proper emotional regulation. All these skills have positively contributed to the development of personal self-discipline. Additionally, from my mother’s parenting method I learned to always be accountable for anything I do. However, as a child, I always felt that she was just being so hard on me.
Once I have children for whom I will be responsible for, I will be an authoritative parent. This is because I want them to develop high self-esteem, show less aggressive tendencies and have better psychological health. All these can only be attained through authoritative parenting.
Authoritative parenting technique has been found to benefit children of different temperaments. Authoritative parents pay a lot of attention to the wellbeing of their children. Permissive by default parenting teaches children to be accountable for whatever they do.
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